When Your Driver's Instinct Kicks In

Sometimes being a good bus driver isn't about what you do. It's about noticing what everyone else missed. A passenger says they're fine. Your instincts aren't quite convinced. So what do you do when something feels wrong, but isn't quite wrong enough to intervene?

Sometimes nothing obvious has happened, but something doesn’t quite add up. Recognising the signs and simply asking, “Are you okay?” can be the most important action of all.

There are plenty of things you expect to deal with on a bus. Late runners. People who wave at you from half a mile away. Someone insisting they definitely pressed the bell (they didn't). And, of course, the daily debate over whether the empty seat next to someone is actually occupied by an invisible friend.

Then there are the moments that aren't in the timetable.

Recently, I was doing a driver change when I noticed a bloke sitting at the back of the lower deck chatting away to a lone female passenger. He appeared to be under the influence of something, and while the conversation didn't look aggressive, it had gone on for quite a while.

Now, here's the thing. We spend hours every day watching people. It's part of the job. Without even realising it, you get fairly good at spotting when something just doesn't look quite right. Sometimes it's nothing. Sometimes it's someone who's had a bad day. Sometimes it's simply your "driver's instinct" tapping you on the shoulder.

So, I wandered down the bus and asked the lady a simple question.

"Are you okay?"

She said she was.

That was the end of it.

Or was it?

One thing I've learned is that people don't always answer that question honestly. Not because they're trying to deceive you, but because it's awkward. Imagine someone is making you uncomfortable while sitting right next to you. Are you really going to say, "Actually no, can you get this person away from me?" Probably not.

That's where reading the room comes in. It's not about playing detective or assuming the worst. It's about paying attention. A smile that doesn't quite reach the eyes. Looking anywhere except at you. One-word answers. That little glance towards the person they're sitting beside before replying.

Sometimes people say they're fine because they genuinely are.

Sometimes they say they're fine because it's easier.

The awkward bit for us drivers is knowing where the line is.

We're not police officers.

We're not security guards.

And despite what some passengers seem to think when they ask us to settle an argument over whose shopping bag deserves its own seat, we're not magistrates either.

Most companies quite rightly don't want drivers leaving the cab to get involved in confrontations. That's not because they don't care; it's because one difficult passenger can become one injured driver remarkably quickly.

So what do you do?

For me, it's about doing the small things.

Ask the question.

Offer the option of sitting nearer the front if it feels appropriate.

Keep an eye on the situation.

Let the next driver or control know if something still doesn't sit right.

And if things genuinely become unsafe, follow company procedures and get the people whose job it actually is to deal with it.

The funny thing is, passengers probably never notice these little moments. They remember getting home. They don't remember the driver quietly checking that everything was alright.

And that's okay.

Because sometimes the best bit of customer service isn't announcing the next stop perfectly or arriving bang on time.

Sometimes it's simply letting someone know they've been seen.

Hopefully they'll never need your help.

But if they do, they'll know someone was paying attention.

Now, if we could just teach people that the aisle isn't an acceptable place to have a full-blown family reunion while everyone else is trying to get off, we'd really be making progress.

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